As I stand at this pivotal moment in my life, transitioning from decades of dedication to my career into the vast possibilities of retirement, I feel a deep pull—a call to go back to my roots. Like the lyrics of a familiar song that speaks of self-discovery and reconnection, this is more than a nostalgic return; it is an intentional journey back to the essence of who I am, where I came from, and the values that shaped me.
Before I set foot on the vast tapestry of the world, weaving my way across the seven continents, I must first make a sacred stop—going home. This is not just a visit; it is a homecoming, a return to the place where my story began.
For years, I have built a life filled with accomplishments, financial wisdom, and the fulfillment of professional success. But beyond all of that, my greatest treasures—the ones that truly define my legacy—are my two incredible daughters, whom I love beyond measure, and my wife, my life partner, who has walked beside me through every triumph and challenge.
As I step into this next chapter—one of exploration, reflection, and pure experience—I realize that before I embrace the vastness of the world, I must first reconnect with my own beginnings.
Home: A Journey Through Time
Going home is more than a journey across distance; it is a journey through time. It is stepping onto the soil where my roots run deep, where the laughter of family still echoes, and where the traditions of my ancestors live on. It is where I will find renewal before expansion, gathering the strength of my heritage before I venture into the unknown corners of the earth.
I want to walk the familiar streets, hear the stories of those who remained, taste the flavors of my childhood, and stand in the presence of the history that shaped me. This is not just a visit—it is a ritual of reconnection, ensuring that no matter where I travel next, I carry home with me in my spirit.
But home is not just a place—it is my family. My daughters are my living legacy, the continuation of everything I have worked for and built. In them, I see the future—brilliant, full of possibility, shaped by both where we come from and where we are going.
And by my side, as she has always been, is my wife—my partner in this incredible journey. She has been my constant, my foundation, my greatest companion in life’s adventure.
Now, as I step into this new phase, I find myself drawn back—not just geographically, but spiritually and emotionally—to the values, traditions, and stories that made me who I am.
Reconnecting with Culture & Legacy
Growing up in Nigeria, my foundation was built on a rich culture of resilience, family, and purpose. My journey took me far from home, into the world of medicine, leadership, and financial strategy, where I dedicated myself to building something meaningful—not just for myself, but for my family and the communities I’ve served.
Yet, no matter how much success one attains, there comes a time when the heart longs for something deeper—a return to the essence of one’s identity.
Part of this journey is deeply personal. Going home means honoring my parents, the two people who poured everything they had into me.
I will stand at my father’s grave site, not in mourning, but in gratitude. He was a man of strength, wisdom, and unwavering love—a guiding presence who set the standard for the kind of man I strive to be. Though he is gone, his legacy remains etched into the fabric of my life.
And I will sit with my mother, the woman who gave me life, nurtured me, and instilled in me the values that have shaped my journey. She is my living history, my direct connection to all that came before. In her eyes, I will see the sacrifices she made, the love she poured into me, and the legacy she continues to build through me.
This journey back is about gathering strength, clarity, and purpose before I step forward into the vastness of the world.
The Seven Continents: A Life Fully Lived
Once I have touched the essence of home, honored my roots, and reaffirmed my foundation, I will set my sights on the vastness of the world.
From the icy peaks of Antarctica to the bustling streets of Asia, from the cultural depths of Europe to the raw beauty of Africa, from the open landscapes of Australia to the wonders of South America and the familiar yet ever-changing spirit of North America—this journey is about more than places.
It is about perspective.
Each continent will tell me a different story. Each land will offer a lesson, a piece of wisdom, a moment that expands the boundaries of what I know.
But before I listen to the world, I must first listen to the heartbeat of home—the love of my family, the sacrifices of my parents, and the legacy I carry forward through my children.
A Journey of Wholeness
This adventure—both the return home and the global exploration—is about more than travel. It is about wholeness.
It is about ensuring that as I collect experiences, I do not forget where I started. That as I expand, I remain grounded. That as I move forward, I do so not as a wanderer, but as someone deeply rooted, carrying the past into the future with wisdom and purpose.
I do this for myself, to see the world with open eyes.
I do this for my daughters, so they can witness a life lived fully, boldly, with intention.
I do this with my wife, my partner in all things, because every journey is more meaningful when shared.
I do this to honor my father and mother, whose sacrifices made every step of my journey possible.
Going home is not an end. It is the beginning.
And from that foundation, I will step forward—onto the tapestry of the world, onto the seven continents of this planet, embracing all that life still has to offer.
Just as the song reminds us, sometimes the best way to find ourselves again is to go back—not to stay, but to gather strength, clarity, and a renewed sense of direction for the road ahead.
This is my season of reflection, renewal, and reconnection.
And in going back to my roots, I find not just where I have been, but where I am meant to go next.
Adekunle Omotayo MD.